Kabula Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Uncontrollable anger ruins more lives! Many times what is said in anger will be remembered for many years, especially with women! I read a book years ago after getting discharged from the Military titled, 'the Dance of Anger.' In one chapter it described a young couple, in love, in a park, on a lake in a rented boat. It was the perfect day; sunny, cool and the lake water was like glass. They were sitting in the boat in the middle of the lake, taking in the sights when suddenly another boat struck them from behind. The man jumped up angry, very angry, out of control, and screaming at the top of his lungs. When he turned around, there was no one in the boat! The point is the next time you suspect an incident especially with a love connection, or friend, understand there may be no one in the boat! Many times what we think, is not acccurate, because we don't have all the facts. Whenever, I get annoyed now, I say to myself, 'there is no one in the boat,' and ignore the situation until I get all the facts. Better to go with the flow, say nothing and investigate further. Less stressful for the partner and folks around you. What you will find over time in many cases is that there was, 'no one in the boat.' Anger, control and of course lack of money kills more relationships. Lose the anger and control, concentrate on the money and things will work out better. Anger is usually generated out of fear. Also, it could be displaced anger from something not related whatsoever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxo1947 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. The last stabbing in Udon Thani........................Yes those Thai's and their emotional issues.............. German Stabs UdonThani Thai Girlfriend 17 Times A German national found that his Thai girlfriend dated a Frenchman behind his back. The German lost his temper and stabbed his girl friend to death. & so on........... Swede Fatally Stabs Thai GF’s Facebook FriendAn apparent love triangle among 18-year-olds resulted in a fatal stabbing in a hotel room. The Thai girlfriend of a Swede had befriended a Thai student on Facebook, but the two men battled each other to death when they met. 62-year-old Briton arrested for stabbing and killing death Thai girlfriend The Nation, Pattaya, Chon Buri - Police have arrested a 62-year-old Briton for having allegedly fatally stabbed his Thai girlfriend late Friday night. Danny Guild was arrested on the fourth floor of Honey Inn Hotel in Chon Buri's Bang Lamung district at 1 am Saturday. He was subdued by police by trying to kill himself by slashing his wrist with the knife he had allegedly used to stab Chawee Pimmasri, 26. We can go on............ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gandalf12 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Execution he needs no alternatives. It is good enough for the Burmese guys from Koh Tao it is good enough for him or are Thai's exempt from this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Moo Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. You really need to get out more. I often follow links to articles I'm interested in and find local news stations or newspapers that have a dozen stories about people who do the same stuff except in the U.S. This is just a tiny fraction of these events, which are so common they are not considered "news." In fact, for the most part, in the U.S. now if fewer than four people are killed it's not going to be reported at all. We have at least one of those a week and increasing. Oh, unless there's a Muslim involved, of course. Another post about "this happen in US also", yes it's happening all around the world but this is a Thai forum where crimes and murder in Thailand is reported, we live here and not in the US. How many murders committed there every day dosent konsern us here in Thailand. dosent konsern? really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivinLOS Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 I wonder why the suspects always agree to do the reenactments. 50% reduced sentence.. By admitting guilt, confessing, and re-enacting.. They make it open and shut and saves court time and an actual trial.. For this they get half time off.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sooo Upto Me Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 What the <deleted> is going on with these sad <deleted>? Serious shake up needed ...... the world is watching u Thailand hatetheuk, ur prob hate Thailand soon then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby Forget the "Thai" man bit, stop generalising, this happens all over the world. I know it has happened in my home country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nakhonandy Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby Forget the "Thai" man bit, stop generalising, this happens all over the world. I know it has happened in my home country. I am sure it happens in everyones home country occasionally, however we are in Thailand. Whether you realise or even care this occurs far more regularly here, it just doesn't always make it any further than the Thai media. I am assuming z42 is referring to the fact that there have been quite a few of these incidents (Thai + Alchohol + dead GF) recently. Hardly a major generalisation! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiwikeith Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby Sounds like he was a Mang-da selling her in Nana as well for whyskey. The sad thing is there are many more like him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxteen Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 I for one am impressed how quickly the thai police handled this oneI'm not. Reason being its so ghastly even Thais knew this couldn't be over looked as some domestic that got out of hand.This was no murder it was an execution. This bastard has no right to live and given the same treatment he gave this poor defenceless woman and her unborn baby. He needs to be taken out and shown no mercy. They say life is too short but seems to be more shorter for others this a perfect example how evil people can be. RIP Agree...This was no murder it was an execution. This bastard has no right to live and given the same treatment he gave this poor defenceless woman and her unborn baby. He needs to be taken out and shown no mercy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby Forget the "Thai" man bit, stop generalising, this happens all over the world. I know it has happened in my home country. I am sure it happens in everyones home country occasionally, however we are in Thailand. Whether you realise or even care this occurs far more regularly here, it just doesn't always make it any further than the Thai media. I am assuming z42 is referring to the fact that there have been quite a few of these incidents (Thai + Alchohol + dead GF) recently. Hardly a major generalisation! Sorry, I don't agree, Thailand is a country with around 60 million people, Scotland is a country with less than 5 million. and this has happened many times there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
technologybytes Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Its a very sad story, jealousy and alcohol is a dangerous combination anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby In the US, that would probably be sorted out once the POS was incarcerated in a SuperMax prison unless he was put in solitary or on death row. Inmates don't like pedophiles, rapists, or sub-humans who hack their girlfriend and unborn child to death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
augustwest Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 A firing squad is too easy and you die almost immediately. Draw and quarter the sob and let him rot in a field Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickJ Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Sounds like one of those rat bags that brings his gf to Bkk to work in the business and than gets jealous.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louse1953 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby 2 days ago i drank copious amounts of beer with 3 Thai guys and 1 Lao.We talked enviromental issues in our local area in a newly built mud brick house.The Lao bloke wants to take us all to Thakhek and an underground river.There were knives used,but only to hack some tough beef.We all shook hands and waid and will do it again.Depends how you choose your mates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louse1953 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. An Australian women is murdered once a week by a man that she knew,ex husband,present husband or boyfriend.The problem is men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louse1953 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 I wonder why the suspects always agree to do the reenactments. If they admit to the crime it cuts the imprisonment to a third.Win,win. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louse1953 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. You really need to get out more. I often follow links to articles I'm interested in and find local news stations or newspapers that have a dozen stories about people who do the same stuff except in the U.S. This is just a tiny fraction of these events, which are so common they are not considered "news." In fact, for the most part, in the U.S. now if fewer than four people are killed it's not going to be reported at all. We have at least one of those a week and increasing. Oh, unless there's a Muslim involved, of course. Another post about "this happen in US also", yes it's happening all around the world but this is a Thai forum where crimes and murder in Thailand is reported, we live here and not in the US. How many murders committed there every day dosent konsern us here in Thailand. You are wrong because Hg referred to it like Thai men only do this and this is not true because all men do this.So people that look at the bigger picture must bring your attention to this and get you out of your Thai specific mind set. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bramds Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Who says she didn't work as a waitress in soi nana as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavender19 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another bully with low self asteam and confidence. suppose he will be out in 5 years. Can I add retarded ,cowardly and SDS. Small dick syndrome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blistering blue barnacles Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 that clown took his wife/girlfriend to work at soi nana and did not know what was happening? what did he think she was doing? selling roses? he was a pimp plain and simple! and it is amazing that he was surprised that he saw another man! these thai men who let their girlfriends/wife work in the red light districts amaze me as to what they expect! She was a waitress at a noodle restaurant. She was heavily pregnant. How does this make her a whore and her ex boyfriend a pimp? Very sad story. RIP and sympathy to the girls family. I hope justice is served on this dangerous thug by ending his life by firing squad. Do you actually bother to read anything? You did the same thing to me yesterday! It quite clearly states in the OP that they both previously lived and she worked at Nana. Only 2 things for sale at Nana, sorry 3, booze, p*ssy and c*ck! Police lay in wait for Taweesak at several locations including the red light district of Soi Nana in Bangkok where the couple had lived and where Chamaiporn worked for several months.[unquote] Well i'll do it to you today.It clearly says she was a waitress that worked in Soi Nana,not NEP.Don't know if you have been there but it is a long soi,with many hotels and restaurants where she could have worked You need to get your eyes above the navel. Soi Nana, no such place, maybe you mean Soi 4. That being the case, yes I used to live there around 20 years ago actually. By the way, they are all waitresses in Nana, don't you know prostitution is illegal here! Get your eyes above the navel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wvavin Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 This guy has to be put away from the public for a very long time as a good measure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uthaithanirules Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 What does even 5 years in a Thai jail actually mean though? No one collects statistics, so no idea what the murder rate is Sentence cut to 1/3 supposedly if he re-inacts for the photoshoot. But what happens when his fellow inmates find out what he did? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yann55 Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. You really need to get out more. I often follow links to articles I'm interested in and find local news stations or newspapers that have a dozen stories about people who do the same stuff except in the U.S. This is just a tiny fraction of these events, which are so common they are not considered "news." In fact, for the most part, in the U.S. now if fewer than four people are killed it's not going to be reported at all. We have at least one of those a week and increasing. Oh, unless there's a Muslim involved, of course. So you have well over a thousand posts and you still don't realise you are on a THAI FORUM. Nobody cares or is asking you what happens in the US. Purrrr leeeease ... not that old asinine statement again ... Jeez, Deez you have almost 500 posts, and you still don't realize that no, this is NOT a 'Thai Forum', this is an English speaking Forum which is based in Thailand and used mostly by FOREIGNERS (most of them native English speakers) who either live here, or visit often, or (for some) have lived here and are now based elsewhere ? So ... the fact that people compare what happens here with what happens elsewhere is perfectly understandable and it makes sense. Living in a very different culture raises a lot of questions, causes a lot of misunderstanding and naturally encourages people to make comparisons. Such comparisons are seldom interesting or intelligent, but they are, I repeat, understandable. What I do find shockingly stupid is when posters, after reading something like 'Thai man kills his wife in a fit of jealous rage', focus solely on the word 'Thai' and launch into a vicious rant against Thailand and the Thais. Acharn was also quite correct to point out that if on top of that, the guy had been a Muslim, then the bashing would have been 10 times worse. When you are in England, or the States, or Australia, and you read in the local papers that a man killed his wife in a fit of jealous rage, do you jump to the conclusion that all English, American or Australian guys are a bunch of brainless brutes ? Of course you don't, because you are intelligent (right?), and you realize that the proportion of self-controlled, educated, gentle and peace-loving people is unfortunately rather minimal in every society. By focusing on the Thai-ness of the killer here, we simply fail to adress the real questions, the serious societal problems this tragic incident points to: - What is jealousy and why is it subtly encouraged in most societies ? Would it be possible to implement a different pattern in people's minds, starting from school ? - Why do so many men, who are notoriously not monogamous, feel entitled to beat up and even kill their wives or girlfriends if they so much as suspect 'infidelity' on their part ? Is that natural or cultural ? Can it be changed ? - Why are most human beings unable to keep their rage in check, especially where sex and pride are involved ? There again, could education improve that ? And if it can, why doesn't it ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maggusoil Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 The only re-enactment I want to see is one of what the police did when the woman first expressed a fear for her life. However, this reaction from police is pretty much the same everywhere. There are certain words one is "supposed" to use for example in Australia which get the bureaucratic feet moving. Saying you are afraid soemone is going to kill you isn't enough. EG I fear that someoen is going to harm me. Or that I may do harm to someoene else, will get the police to your door in 5 minutes. I don't know what the signals are here, but I imagine there is something similar. Its sounds pathetic and it is, however we have to know these things and police are lazy. its a job after all. You get paid and go home. People want to murder each other, you go and clean up afterwards. Arrest someone if possible. See if they have enough money to defend themselves and go home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dunroaming Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 We all read and comment on these daily events in Thailand. Most (including me) compare it to life in other countries and tut tut accordingly. But in reality for those of us who still live in Thailand isn't it time to just come to terms with it. When I first moved to Thailand some eighteen years ago I took the view that I was a foreigner in their country and that I should fit into the their way of doing things and respect their way of life. No point in trying to change them to fit my rules and values. In reality Thailand has always been the same when it comes to volatile people taking the law into their own hands. Jealousy is rife, face is almost as important as money and truth has no value whatsoever. Buildings will collapse because of bad construction, people will be electrocuted because there are no safety measures, people will be robbed and stabbed or shot and girls, women and children will be raped and murdered. Gang violence and shootings and drug dealing is the norm and the police are corrupt and useless. The other side of the coin is that Thailand is a beautiful country with beautiful women and girls (and in some cases men) and life can be very comfortable for a relatively small amount of money. It is gay friendly and for a few baht here and there you can oil the system to get pretty much what you want. You decide. I had many happy years in Thailand and some pretty hairy times too. In the end the negatives outweighed the positives but I will always remember my time in Thailand with great affection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andApples Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 Jesus christ someone do the honours and send this appalling sub human to the next life without delay. The current recipe seems to be Thai man + alcohol = disaster. RIP to the lady and her baby You have no idea what Thai women + alcohol can do, or even just a human being + alcohol can do. Alcohol is well known to cause lots of problems all over the world. That will be todays lesson for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Grumpy Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. You really need to get out more. I often follow links to articles I'm interested in and find local news stations or newspapers that have a dozen stories about people who do the same stuff except in the U.S. This is just a tiny fraction of these events, which are so common they are not considered "news." In fact, for the most part, in the U.S. now if fewer than four people are killed it's not going to be reported at all. We have at least one of those a week and increasing. Oh, unless there's a Muslim involved, of course. I agree. US society, altough off-topic, is almost as pitiful as Thailand's. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted March 25, 2016 Share Posted March 25, 2016 another Thai 'man' viciously murdering his female partner in a fit of rage caused by jealousy. They really, really, do have serious emotional and egotistical issues to battle, with more than a smidgen of repressed anger due to the culture and society. So many are simply pitiful. An Australian women is murdered once a week by a man that she knew,ex husband,present husband or boyfriend.The problem is men. Hmmm! Why haven't I hacked any women up? Probably because I've been emasculated by all my feminist friends <not>. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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