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She is Thai, the daughter is Thai, and the son is Luk Kreung.

Money does not change anyone's nationality.

When the daughter (who is Thai) reaches her teenage years, and the OP tries to show some authority, as in telling her she should not be doing this or that, her answer will be '<deleted> off, you are not my father'.

That will be the appreciation he gets for throwing money at them, to, as you say, keep them up with the Jones'.

And for your information, the same doctors treat people on the 30 baht scheme, as well as the extortionate private hospitals.

True, you and I know that but not the majority of Thais, once they get one hook, now it is the better the hospital looks the treatment must be better too? The difference as you and I know it too is the charge will be different and if you were to try to point that out to your Thai Misses the answer would be you don't care about family!cheesy.gif

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I think you should get off your ass and go there and spend a few months there yourself! Times have changed when we were young and even in Thailand, today kids need what we had and a hundred times more! Sure she could be ripping you off only you know her? Do you think she is doing that?

For whatever reason women in Thailand have been condition to think they must be the bread winners for their parents while in general the guys do nothing. I would be surprise if she isn't helping the parents in some form. Thailand isn't the West!

What I can tell you and I've been in your position asking the same question from afar wondering at the same time I have plenty of money to spend on myself while someone else is raising the kids. Each day whether you are there or not, the more she is married to you or not she becomes more like a farang. She and your kids need the same things you wish for yourself otherwise she might have married and have kids by a useless Thai !

I hear this a lot and it is their opinion that living in Isaan one does not need as much money! I think you have to live there been there in your shoes to know. Looking at the amount you are sending the number of kids and her surrounding I would disagree she is socking a lot of money away on you. Reality thing breakdown, people get sick, kids need toys, clothes, etc... I really need to go on and explain it to you and everyone. Prices are cheaper for some things but not many. What the prices are at Big C, in Bangkok or Pattaya aren't much different in Isaan, car, motorbike, gas, etc.. I've been there particularly in Sukhothai.

You took on the responsibility so do so! Not saying you should now send 100,000 a month. But you might want to cut back on the coffee, beer, etc.. luxury each day you most likely enjoy but don't consider it to be? The money you save you be surprise could translate addition 5,000 or 10,000 baht a month without a loss in your enjoyment!

Thai teachers, some with more kids than her, survive on a lot less than 25,000 baht a month. The kids do not suffer, and most of these families lead quite a comfortable life.

So my advice to her is, to get off her big fat Arse and get a job, if not, go back on the game.

The reality is this... she isn't with a Thai Teacher, living in a Thai matter? She is with a foreigner if she wanted to live like a Thai why in the hell did she have two kids with him. Having two kids with a foreigner the expectation here is to have a better life. Just last year a MP, was quoted in a interview in the Bangkok Post in regards to Isaan women. " if you want a better life marry a foreigner " The truth hurts that is why after the interview he was removed from his office!

The problem is your western thinking trying to apply it here in Thailand. If she was making a living in a bar/go-go, making for example 40,000 a month and someone falls in love with her and want her out of the business. You think love is going to make everything right for her and her family? Most of the time the guy think it does? In Asia, sure love exist but in general unless it is a better or easier life they might as well stick to their own kind. This is a tough concept for foreigners to accept! Sure you might be right get her fat ass back to work, but the BM took that away when he locked her up with two more kids! End of story for me!

If you had read the OP you would have seen that only one of the children was his. That said both kids deserved to be treated equally, The older girl at 9 is still not at the stage of a teenager in Mor4 who NEEDS an Iphone....top model and Laptop and an unlimited phone and data card...not that they should get all they want.

The money you send is more than enough for all needs and to help the parents. It is on the high side when housing is not a need. More is a sign of a problem, either with her needs..gambling or drugs or worse of your relationship.

No one especially me is saying she shouldn't be treated fairly. Have you heard any of my post say anything like that? I feel whether you adopt the kid or not if you get into a relationship no matter where the kids yes they should be treated fairly and should be looked at if you produce the child yourself. A Thai monk once told me being able to give birth to a child does not give you exclusive right to love them, if that was the case why so many Thai boys and men just leave. Thus the result of some many girls working in the trade.

My use of the I-phone was just a example it is certainly not a fact with everyone including Thais.It is just a example that there are unexpected needs, roof leaks, plumbing bad etc. no one really knows we can all assume and speculate what is enough that is why I said for the BM to get his ass over there and live there for a few months and pay the bills himself. We have ten plus pages and I'm part of it and it is all generalization and assumption she is doing this or not doing this....my opinion is no different than those who do not agree with my opinion they are assumption and my assumption is she might be right.

I guess in the end, I have a problem with anyone who locks up a girl and lives abroad in their home country thinking they have a budget to keep. Sure shit happens but I'm going to make a good guess the BM isn't suffering and if the tables/shoe was on the other foot he certainly haven't said to us he can't send anymore otherwise he would be suffering himself. He made his bed now he has got to sleep in it, or course he has to spend some time there to find out instead of his two week holiday.

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@ Ardon,

Yes your English is on the poor side but we do accommodate for all..Happy family...

Did I say Trans was being ripped off....?

Please answer.........thumbsup.gif

My nickname not Ardon

its ARDOKANO

please read carefully

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Did I say Trans was being ripped off....?

i donno

May be you frarang.

you tell me meaning of frarang and i can ansverthumbsup.gif

and its not my fault if some " being ripped off " in Thailandthumbsup.gif

PS

just kidding

if seriose.

i do not belive OP.

But if...

Why his need know how much it be? Why need compare with some thai or any another?

His have his income and opinion about life.. This is HIS son.. and:

1So how much HIS can spend for HIS son an his GF with her another children.

2 What type life HIS want for HIS son and how much its costing in Thailand( isaan)

3 How much realy spend His GF and what really give for HIS son from money her get from him

4 How much spend average Thai ( isaan, villige, farmer) family.

Its FOUR DIFFERENT Thinks!!!

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@ Ardon,

Yes your English is on the poor side but we do accommodate for all..Happy family...

Did I say Trans was being ripped off....?

Please answer.........thumbsup.gif

My nickname not Ardon

its ARDOKANO

please read carefully

thumbsup.gif

Did I say Trans was being ripped off....?

i donno

May be you frarang.

you tell me meaning of frarang and i can ansverthumbsup.gif

and its not my fault if some " being ripped off " in Thailandthumbsup.gif

PS

just kidding

if seriose.

i do not belive OP.

But if...

Why his need know how much it be? Why need compare with some thai or any another?

His have his income and opinion about life.. This is HIS son.. and:

1So how much HIS can spend for HIS son an his GF with her another children.

2 What type life HIS want for HIS son and how much its costing in Thailand( isaan)

3 How much realy spend His GF and what really give for HIS son from money her get from him

4 How much spend average Thai ( isaan, villige, farmer) family.

Its FOUR DIFFERENT Thinks!!!

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My Thai stepson is now being trained to be a special forces cop...It has taken us a long time to even get him accepted...

When he passes out he will be 21 and have a future, he can find a lady and go on from there..

His salary will be 16,000bht a month, it will go up if he proves himself...

OP's bird ain't happy with 25,000..............total BS.......

PS. If you want to pull me up on a spelling error I could tear you apart, but I don't go there. When you have sorted your English out you may correct me...

Not about arror.

About mistake i guess you want say farang.

But its not English word.

And for some can be offensive.

Again

Not talking about girl.

Have son

Have OP not THAI people. How much he can spend and what life want it him IMHO.

PS

I cant say 16k its " have a future"

Ofcouse his can get after some "pocket money" from people."

And "free food, drink, girl etc"

But its still for many people NOT

"have a future".

"go on from there"

From where? From Thailand?

So why need west time for trained to be a special forces cop?

More early go, more big chance "have future".

;)

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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

I do not delet..

And i am not "insinuating" i just say CAN.

sorry may be my English wrong

But i guess it meaning your stepsun have this is option, as know from News and folks some time happened in Thailand.

Ofcouse i VERY wish for you step son do not do it. and happy and healthy life.

so you mean 16 k for job with risik for life 16k B it have future?

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But my point its HAVE all HAVE IMHO about opinion HOW it GOOD life and all have different size they pocket..

And as you say "BIRD" also for some be children..

SO you insinuating SHE cheating and ROB op?

MAy be she try give children good life and education as OP want and OP need upper than some another people..

May be she give English class for children

Pay for add lesson music, some sport,

Try give healthy food.. etc..

ALL be different standart!!!

so it YOU talk Crap..

again

for many people i know 500$ in Thailand its nightmar life this for they children and its not "have futurer"

As example cost low qulity car in Thailand it near 16 k(500$) per month( service, fuel wash etc).

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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

I do not delet..

And i am not "insinuating" i just say CAN.

sorry may be my English wrong

But i guess it meaning your stepsun have this is option, as know from News and folks some time happened in Thailand.

Ofcouse i VERY wish for you step son do not do it. and happy and healthy life.

But my point its HAVE all HAVE IMHO about opinion HOW it GOOD life and all have different size they pocket..

And as you say "BIRD" also for some be children..

SO you insinuating SHE cheating and ROB op?

MAy be she try give children good life and education as OP want and OP need upper than some another people..

May be she give English class for children

Pay for add lesson music, some sport,

Try give healthy food.. etc..

ALL be different standart!!!

so it YOU talk Crap..

again

for many people i know 500$ in Thailand its nightmar life this for they children and not "have futer"

As example cost low qulity car in Thailand it near 16 k(500$) per month( service, fuel wash etc).

Happy you took the time to bail out of you insinuation cos the guy is here with me on holiday.....In future be careful what you say...

When are you coming to Thailand for a visit......?

What?

Its NOT " insinuation"!

Agaime explaine

Can .. i am not mean must or he do it.

just read some news in happened in many country even my homecoutry it happened.

If you thinks another..

Sorry i do not want hurt any..

please do not threaten me.

I am not scare.. I am not Have my children now, My mom and pap you cant hurt.. so what i need scare?

PS

from some country can get Red allert to Interpol even nothing to do..

in principle, it's nothing to worry about. but it may hinder the free movement unto some countries.

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And i am not hide and belive me in comunite where i was young bail price can be life.

So i am so careful talk..

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And i know all people have a blood. and have time they die.. gigglem.gif

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If the guy was not giving her 25k she would have a job of some sort earning 200bht a day, not the 800+ she has now. Mum would be looking after the kids, that's how folk do it here.

Seeing stuff in LOS over many years I can guarantee if he ups the amount now in the future it will be asked to up again...

I know a few who had to much in there pocket and got on the "cards" train, get hooked, lose and keep going back more and lose again. Not saying this is happening with the OP but.....

blink.png If the guy was not giving her 25k she would have a job of some sort earning 200bht

Pleasread carefully.

with our 2 year old son

Son for you its nothing?

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its OP son..

You are one of the reasons frarangs are being ripped off...

Sorry my english so poor

so can you give me meaning "frarang" .. not see this is word in any English dictonary..

And I am sorry you be being ripped off..

It's not my fault

but i am so sorry ,, sad.png

LOL

I dont think i have ever laughed so much from reading one post!!.

You are Thai, yes?

Sincerely..do keep on posting, your contributions are pure gold on this thread.

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If the guy was not giving her 25k she would have a job of some sort earning 200bht a day, not the 800+ she has now. Mum would be looking after the kids, that's how folk do it here.

Seeing stuff in LOS over many years I can guarantee if he ups the amount now in the future it will be asked to up again...

I know a few who had to much in there pocket and got on the "cards" train, get hooked, lose and keep going back more and lose again. Not saying this is happening with the OP but.....

blink.png If the guy was not giving her 25k she would have a job of some sort earning 200bht

Pleasread carefully.

with our 2 year old son

Son for you its nothing?

blink.png

its OP son..

You are one of the reasons frarangs are being ripped off...

Are you insinuating I'm a partner robbery ?blink.png

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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

Sorry my Eglish

Cop you mean Police?

You mean Thai Police?

SO you insinuating Thai Police will be rob Thai people? is it you say?

I nothig to talk abou ROB AND THAILAND POLICE

WHY YOU SAY This is?

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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

I do not delet..

And i am not "insinuating" i just say CAN.

sorry may be my English wrong

But i guess it meaning your stepsun have this is option, as know from News and folks some time happened in Thailand.

Ofcouse i VERY wish for you step son do not do it. and happy and healthy life.

so you mean 16 k for job with risik for life 16k B it have future?

blink.png

But my point its HAVE all HAVE IMHO about opinion HOW it GOOD life and all have different size they pocket..

And as you say "BIRD" also for some be children..

SO you insinuating SHE cheating and ROB op?

MAy be she try give children good life and education as OP want and OP need upper than some another people..

May be she give English class for children

Pay for add lesson music, some sport,

Try give healthy food.. etc..

ALL be different standart!!!

so it YOU talk Crap..

again

for many people i know 500$ in Thailand its nightmar life this for they children and its not "have futurer"

As example cost low qulity car in Thailand it near 16 k(500$) per month( service, fuel wash etc).

You are trolling my "friend". I just had a look at your other postings and it seems like that your English is better than mine.

Please stop the bs!

Thank you

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Not too many folks in town make 25,000baht/mo. much less in the countryside. Those who have a skilled trade and are self-employed can command 1000baht/day. When you have money it just seems to slip away. 100baht here and there for items that aren't really a necessity. A birthday party that is pretty low key is about 6-7000baht easy. It does have a way of slipping away. Of course she can exist on much less than 25,000/mo.

I've read about those who are in control of every baht for bills. Old lady comes by to collect money for people who died. My lady gives her some money and she asks if I'm not getting involved. She goes on to tell about the one other farang in village who has to stick his nose in on everything. I sense the same goes for many of the posters here on TV. I sense many here are very controlling.

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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

I do not delet..

And i am not "insinuating" i just say CAN.

sorry may be my English wrong

But i guess it meaning your stepsun have this is option, as know from News and folks some time happened in Thailand.

Ofcouse i VERY wish for you step son do not do it. and happy and healthy life.

But my point its HAVE all HAVE IMHO about opinion HOW it GOOD life and all have different size they pocket..

And as you say "BIRD" also for some be children..

SO you insinuating SHE cheating and ROB op?

MAy be she try give children good life and education as OP want and OP need upper than some another people..

May be she give English class for children

Pay for add lesson music, some sport,

Try give healthy food.. etc..

ALL be different standart!!!

so it YOU talk Crap..

again

for many people i know 500$ in Thailand its nightmar life this for they children and not "have futer"

As example cost low qulity car in Thailand it near 16 k(500$) per month( service, fuel wash etc).

Happy you took the time to bail out of you insinuation cos the guy is here with me on holiday.....In future be careful what you say...

When are you coming to Thailand for a visit......?

You want show me you Vigo?

sorry i am not enteresting about any more..

What guy?

Why you need Guy?

Ofcouse it you choise guy or girl.

I am not care..

Please not say next time about Thai police any bad thinks or insinuation

It can to bail In Thailand..

You can Give me You phone and My Friend explain To you this is , that his some part of work as i know..

for this is post:

Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

as you could come to such a horrible thought in your head?

I newere say this is.

But your yassumptions are awful and is not permissible in the direction always friendly smiling to me good Thailand police

Why you do it?

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This thread is so funny.

Its not enough that all the old farang bar stoolers call themselfs SAS..

But now there kid is also SAS..

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The most important. What are you getting back for the money you give per month

Today there are 25,000 ฿, next month there are maybe 30,000 ฿ etc.


better for you to start a new life with a new girl



cost of living in Isaan

Salaries And Financing

Average Monthly Disposable Salary (Net After Tax) 9,550.00 ฿ per month







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Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...?

Hello

You say:

Ardon, you as usual are talking crap, please do not delete half my post to suit you...

Are you insinuating my stepson will rob Thais when he is a cop...? ©

I called my friend and he said it was very insulting ( offensive) statement to the Thai police and for me.

And my friend very interesting WHERE its happened.

what you have done so insulting thoughts?
I did not say that.
I say my friend may be this is online poster have another meaning and may be my English poor and my friend not native English speaker.
But I and my friend accept
It would be good that you apologized to the police and to me.
and explained that the wrong words
Ofcouse in public forum as you post offensive statement
best regard Ardokano

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