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My girlfriend (28), who I met in Bangkok, enjoys a pretty luxurious lifestyle. ~25k baht two bedroom condo on Sukhumvit. Newest iPhone every year, closet full of expensive clothes, a gallon of various perfumes, LV, Prada, Macbook, etc. etc. She's been all over Europe and Asia, including a year of studying abroad. Took me almost two months to get her to let me pay for anything when we go out to eat, taxis, groceries, etc.

No job (ever). She says that she gets a monthly allowance from her parents - something like 80k a month. Claims Dad is involved in the military (but he's not powerful, she insists), Mom has a small food business.

Is it possible that the money is really coming from them? I was thinking it must be coming from some poor SOB abroad, but I've lived with her for the past two months and not once has she slipped away to answer the phone, hidden her chats from me (I use her phone freely), or really done anything suspicious. She even posts pictures of us to social media, so definitely not trying to hide anything.

Yet, it seems like an awful lot of money sent from a military job plus what I believe is basically a food stand. She spends/has spent way more than a retired bargirl could/would put into savings (although she does have a tramp stamp, shags like a pornstar, and swears like a sailor). On top of all this, I'm only 23, and broke. She's well aware of that situation. Can someone help me figure out whats going on here?

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I would encourage you to try harder at school and focus more on your homework.


Good luck.

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Time for popcorn & entertainment....

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now this could get good,

you joined thai visa today just so you could tell us all this,,,pmsl

lucky boy

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OP your problem is easily fixed.

Go to see a doctor and he will prescribe you some medication.

Just remember to take it regularly, your problem will soon disappear.

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Of course it's possible that the money is coming from her family. Not all Thai people are poor.

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Enjoy it while you can ...... but don't carry any packages through customs for her.

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"Can someone help me figure out whats going on here?"

You have blue skin,are covered in warts and live under a bridge somewhere in Northern Scandinavia? coffee1.gif

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So dad could be a corrupt military man with a motza yet makes his wife work at a food stall while unloading all his spare dosh on his daughter who doesn't work and could maybe be hiso except for the tramp stamps and swearing like a sailor.

Troll, troll, troll your boat gently down the stream. Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream.

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So dad could be a corrupt military man with a motza yet makes his wife work at a food stall while unloading all his spare dosh on his daughter who doesn't work and could maybe be hiso except for the tramp stamps and swearing like a sailor.

Troll, troll, troll your boat gently down the stream. Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream.

Actually not trolling at all. My main question is based on whether its possible for someone in the Thai military to make 180k+ a month (and if it is, should I be afraid of someone who is pulling in that much?).

I don't expect anyone to believe my story buts its true. Being in your twenties, white, in shape, with decent looks and a well put together profile got me about 20+ new messages a day (more if I was online for long periods of time) on TF. From there I just replied to women that seemed to have similar interests as me, were attractive, spoke decent English (over chat), and tried to get them to meet up with me. She was one of the few that agreed to meet one-on-one. I didn't take part in the nightlife scene, but it's pretty obvious which girls online are bargirls or gold-diggers ("Looking for a good man to take care of me...."I'm not bargirl. I'm good girl. Want nice man not bad man"...desired age limit set to "Any" or upper limit of 45+ when they are only in their 20s).

The financial aspect is nice but I still have to deal with truly psychotic levels of jealousy, blatant and unapologetic materialism, and the equivalent emotional stability and neediness of a 16 year old girl. I don't think an older, more experienced man could tolerate it for more than a few weeks, even taking the sex and financial situation into account.

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Now listen Mate....your girlfriend sounds a bit 'sus' to me

so I would advise you to give her the 'flick', send her packing and don't see her anymore.

Tell her 'it's over,it's kaput,finito,arriverdoochi baby....

Oh and btw...would you like to send me her contact details and I'll make sure she never bothers you again >

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So dad could be a corrupt military man with a motza yet makes his wife work at a food stall while unloading all his spare dosh on his daughter who doesn't work and could maybe be hiso except for the tramp stamps and swearing like a sailor.

Troll, troll, troll your boat gently down the stream. Merrily merrily merrily life is but a dream.

Actually not trolling at all. My main question is based on whether its possible for someone in the Thai military to make 180k+ a month (and if it is, should I be afraid of someone who is pulling in that much?).

I don't expect anyone to believe my story buts its true. Being in your twenties, white, in shape, with decent looks and a well put together profile got me about 20+ new messages a day (more if I was online for long periods of time) on TF. From there I just replied to women that seemed to have similar interests as me, were attractive, spoke decent English (over chat), and tried to get them to meet up with me. She was one of the few that agreed to meet one-on-one. I didn't take part in the nightlife scene, but it's pretty obvious which girls online are bargirls or gold-diggers ("Looking for a good man to take care of me...."I'm not bargirl. I'm good girl. Want nice man not bad man"...desired age limit set to "Any" or upper limit of 45+ when they are only in their 20s).

The financial aspect is nice but I still have to deal with truly psychotic levels of jealousy, blatant and unapologetic materialism, and the equivalent emotional stability and neediness of a 16 year old girl. I don't think an older, more experienced man could tolerate it for more than a few weeks, even taking the sex and financial situation into account.

Ok then. Yes and definitely yes. Waffle, waffle yes im sure your a great catch, well done handsome man. Final paragraph welcome to Thailand ( majority of girls here though not all as I am sure many will be in a hurry to tell you)

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"My girlfriend (28), who I met in Bangkok, enjoys a pretty luxurious lifestyle. ~25k baht two bedroom condo on Sukhumvit. Newest iPhone every year, closet full of expensive clothes, a gallon of various perfumes, LV, Prada, Macbook, etc. etc. She's been all over Europe and Asia, including a year of studying abroad. Took me almost two months to get her to let me pay for anything when we go out to eat, taxis, groceries, etc"

Not unusual in BKK. I know teen girls sitting in 120k condos or moving around between the 5 or so houses in the city owned by their parents.

Furthermore, most of them have spent several 100k on their faces/bodies before they even reach 20 (try asking them to show you childhood pictures).

It's just the default lifestyle for hi-so sino-thai girls growing up, you look the best your money (i.e. daddy's) can buy and show your bling-bling.

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The Playtex Bra syndrome.

No visible means of support.

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