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2 hours ago, goldenbrwn1 said:

Sorry mate...I find that rather hard to believe that Thai girls are slipping you their number ,whilst with their husbands or boyfriends in lotus! Lol.  I'm in great shape and have been all my life,lived in Thailand since my early thirties ....usually I'm far too modest to say I'm a good looking bloke, but in response to your post....I'm a good looking bloke, and I have never had a Thai girl act like that in front of their hubby towards me and I have never seen it happen or hear of it happening to anyone else in a place like tesco lotus. Sorry just find that hard to believe...but yes Asian girls are far more approachable than western girls in general. 

Yes, I agree with this, I have the looks and in good shape, but I certainly never had any girls approach me with phone numbers, in fact, I have never had any girls, apart from hookers ever

approach me at all, I would look for any signs that they may be interested before I would approach them.

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2 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

Yes, I agree with this, I have the looks and in good shape, but I certainly never had any girls approach me with phone numbers, in fact, I have never had any girls, apart from hookers ever

approach me at all, I would look for any signs that they may be interested before I would approach them.

I have the same results :D, or should I say experience. (I don't like to brag about looks or shape, but I think I'm OK in that department).

 

In 10 years of cruising around Pattaya I've never been approached apart from bar girls in the red zone and obvious working girls and ladyboys on the prowl in other areas. If you don't make the initial contact, they will leave you alone.

 

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18 minutes ago, tropo said:

So those "very nice younger women suggest we get together" wanted to get together with you just because they liked you? They weren't interested in easy money? They just wanted to be with a much older guy for love?

 

I'm not quite 63 (getting close), but I certainly don't think "very nice younger women" would be interested in anything else from a much older guy.

 

Most older guys get attention from "very nice younger women", but it shouldn't be boosting their egos.

 

 

Are you man kindling me , if a older man has fun with a young lady who cares as long as he dose not do his balls over her .

Two winners him and her , I get sick of reading shit from the so called younger man on here who have a go at the older man ,one thing all those so called younger man do is get to a older age .

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5 hours ago, blackcab said:

When I look at my wife's friends there are many the same age as her that are single. They don't have children, they are financially independent and they speak very good English (and some speak a third language). They have good jobs and are very pleasant to look at. They have all studied and/or travelled abroad and while they are Thai they are also open minded about other countries and cultures. Most of them would like to date a good guy (Thai or otherwise), but they have difficulty finding anyone.

 

There is definitely opportunity for good quality guys who mix in the right circles.

 

Shit, its too late, they have caught the western woman syndrome...............

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I think the ATM thing is more for the kiddy night clubbers or the older ones that stopped learning once they turned on a TV and remain 6 years old complete with tantrums in a 40,50+ year old body.  I'd stay away from those in the same way as I'd stay away from the 'working' tattoo advertisements

When I met my latest (and hopefully last) she still enjoyed the party scene once in a while, but now that doesn't interest her.  Our age gap ratio was at its greatest then, but when I'm 1000 years old, shell be nearly the same.   She's been forced to grow up through circumstance and although her looks will  fade as the years pass, it doesn't matter really as she is getting better all the time in almost every other way.  

 

I think for the most part as they get a bit of maturity about them they still want security, and to be able to offer security to their family, but are less inclined to do stupid with your money, as she's as invested in you as you are her.  When you show them your appreciation you can see them glow and are a joy to be with.  It's palpable just being in the same room.  The only thing that I think won't pass I think is our different cultures and beliefs, so we both just let that slide.

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9 minutes ago, georgemandm said:

Are you man kindling me , if a older man has fun with a young lady who cares as long as he dose not do his balls over her .

Two winners him and her , I get sick of reading shit from the so called younger man on here who have a go at the older man ,one thing all those so called younger man do is get to a older age .

LOL. I'm not a younger guy (only a few years to 60), but I don't run around thinking I'm a handsome man just because some "very nice younger ladies" are paying attention.

 

You must be "kindling me".:D

 

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In Thailand getting a good partner is the the same as getting a good job. By referral. 

That's why the posters here claim it must be easy because they are approached by wife's friends to find them a good hubby. A Thai woman doesn't trust her own instinct, so will prefer the judgment of her peers. 

If you get approached by an unknown female she is a working girl or desperate. If you approach an unknown good woman your chances are slim. Become friends with her friends and it'll be much easier. 

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2 minutes ago, Gulfsailor said:

In Thailand getting a good partner is the the same as getting a good job. By referral. 

That's why the posters here claim it must be easy because they are approached by wife's friends to find them a good hubby. A Thai woman doesn't trust her own instinct, so will prefer the judgment of her peers. 

If you get approached by an unknown female she is a working girl or desperate. If you approach an unknown good woman your chances are slim. Become friends with her friends and it'll be much easier. 

very hard to become friends with a thai woman. what do we have in common with thai woman? also every woman i have ever bedded in thailand that i still know put out within 24 hours. thai women are the best in the world as far as i am concerned. just need to keep them at arms length. they cant reach your wallet from there.

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5 hours ago, blackcab said:

When I look at my wife's friends there are many the same age as her that are single. They don't have children, they are financially independent and they speak very good English (and some speak a third language). They have good jobs and are very pleasant to look at. They have all studied and/or travelled abroad and while they are Thai they are also open minded about other countries and cultures. Most of them would like to date a good guy (Thai or otherwise), but they have difficulty finding anyone.

 

There is definitely opportunity for good quality guys who mix in the right circles.

Maybe they set their standard to high.  :wai2:

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5 hours ago, HooHaa said:

 

so you are saying its you.

 

I find it is amusing that you are differentiating between the men, yet using "thai women" as an all encompassing term. 

 

perhaps that is a part of your problem.

 

I don't think drronie is saying that at all actually.

 

Some men regardless of their outward appearance are naturally shy. I agree with him wholeheartedly in that respect.

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7 hours ago, georgemandm said:

Are you joking, I don't date bar woman in thailand at all and I have find thai woman are the easiest woman to pick up and date .

 

Well here's what you said last year in the "Am back in Thailand" thread.

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I was in Soi cowboy to night and still the same but not a lot of punters at all that could be because of the thai bht . The woman are still great looking .

But love coming back here and having fun not like back home in Australia at my age not good .

 

Sounds to me like you do date bar women

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4 hours ago, manfredtillmann said:

just another so enlightening post from our oz ambassador.

at least, this time, he did not post:' are you joking me...'

i enjoy reading his 'posts :cheesy:', reminds me every time why i don't want to live in oz any more.

life can be so good.

 

You are raising the bar there (Oz ambassador), are you joking me.......

 

I left that shit hole behind, only to be constantly reminded by him that if it wasn't for Australia, I wouldn't be here, that, and I am full of bs..., you have to give him some credit when he deserves it, so far he has ZERO credit

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4 hours ago, mike1967 said:

Read into this what you will. 

I have signed up to a thai dating website. I received lots of interest and messages but got fed up with too many conversations surrounding the conversation of money. One particular girl was looking for "true love" but also wanted 5,000,000 baht from a westerner for the entitlement to marry her. She had already been married to a Thai man and had children. 

I changed my profile adding, "please do not talk or ask about money". Guess what? The interest in me has dropped by 95 percent.

I'm not making any judgements but what does this tell you?

 

Hmmm, that Thai girls are like most women in that regard ? 

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36 minutes ago, Agent Sumo said:

 

Well here's what you said last year in the "Am back in Thailand" thread.

Sounds to me like you do date bar women

Probably just confusion as to the meaning of "date". In fact NO men date bar women.

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