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10 minutes ago, seancbk said:



They may be in their 30's but I'd bet anything they are not good looking, well educated or even remotely sophisticated.  

 

If these Thai women looked like Park Lane models, well educated with degrees and upper class, they wouldn`t be advertising themselves on cheap dating websites with age required, any, on their profiles. Unless the old man was filthy rich, a big shot in the business world or a celebrity.

 

But the fact is although it may appear Thai women are easy prey, they still come with a price tag because these women expect a lot in return for being the other half of a relationship, so whereas the old guys think they are onto a good thing, it`s actually a false belief that making out with Thai women is easy and lower maintenance then if they dating women in their own countries. 

 

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4 hours ago, possum1931 said:
4 hours ago, tropo said:

So those "very nice younger women suggest we get together" wanted to get together with you just because they liked you? They weren't interested in easy money? They just wanted to be with a much older guy for love?

 

I'm not quite 63 (getting close), but I certainly don't think "very nice younger women" would be interested in anything else from a much older guy.

 

Most older guys get attention from "very nice younger women", but it shouldn't be boosting their egos.

 

 

 

mate, what can I say,  I dont hang out any where near hookers/bar girls, not a drinker, have an easy going attitude and smile/laugh a lot, treat everyone I talk to nicely where ever I run into them and most take me for being in my late 40's early 50's . Some ladies just appreciate it when you treat them nicely I suppose, I cant explain it but it happens, what you think doesnt matter, its what they think that does and I dont worry about any ego boosts, as I said I am very happy with what I have and not interested in anything else. Maybe its your attitude thats your probelm if you think only money  can find a woman and they usually dont like hanging out with men that act like boys with the same mentality as a 18 year old, many think older men are a lot more experienced, maybe you should try asking them as I cant tell you what they think 

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24 minutes ago, seancbk said:

 

From what I've seen most guys that come here have very low standards.   I've been truly amazed at some of the pigs I've seen Western blokes with.

 

Hold on a second mate, thai women are beautiful not all but a good majority and let's be perfectly honest now. Your nothing in the looks department absolutely nothing in fact I would say your a 5 out of 10 ( based on your image)just like me and most men so instead of criticising the fat lads the old lads and the rest try looking beyond aesthetics for a moment. Perhaps the chap you deem as a moose has a good heart and I choose the good heart any day over looks it just so happens my mrs is an absolute stunner and I'm not even joking  I have no idea what she is doing with me but I think she knows my heart is in the right place but you know something all my partners were the same but they had a lot more besides looks and that is why I dated them. Nice t-shirt too.

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I honestly believe "all Asian women" are a lot easier to meet, date, and "boom boom."  Everything is relative; this is in comparison and contrast to "white Western women."  Why do you see so many geeks have Asian girl friends and/or wives?   Myself included.  

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14 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Hold on a second mate, thai women are beautiful not all but a good majority and let's be perfectly honest now. Your nothing in the looks department absolutely nothing in fact I would say your a 5 out of 10 ( based on your image)just like me and most men so instead of criticising the fat lads the old lads and the rest try looking beyond aesthetics for a moment. Perhaps the chap you deem as a moose has a good heart and I choose the good heart any day over looks it just so happens my mrs is an absolute stunner and I'm not even joking  I have no idea what she is doing with me but I think she knows my heart is in the right place but you know something all my partners were the same but they had a lot more besides looks and that is why I dated them. Nice t-shirt too.


I said the women were the ugly ones, and I was talking about bar girls.   If a bloke comes here on holiday and bar fines girls you'd at least expect him to take a nice looking one.
 

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1 minute ago, seancbk said:


I said the women were the ugly ones, and I was talking about bar girls.   If a bloke comes here on holiday and bar fines girls you'd at least expect him to take a nice looking one.
 

I respect you as you have a profile of who you are on your profile. I tried to do the same but my nose looked too big in the image to be perfectly honest it is too big yet I never lie. Unlucky or maybe not..  anyway vice versa does not mean a thing my point still stands regardless of who you were referring to. Drink your drink and review it tomorrow it's no biggy. 

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Ok.  no bragging here. But I'm 46. average looking with some kilos overweight and some months ago,  I had 4 girls in 5 days picked up in disco. Normal beautiful girls with good English.  No tatoos.  not 1 baht payed for. Except they shared my 800baht sang som  bottle. Age between 25 to 33. yeah.  it's really easy

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6 minutes ago, sead said:

Ok.  no bragging here. But I'm 46. average looking with some kilos overweight and some months ago,  I had 4 girls in 5 days picked up in disco. Normal beautiful girls with good English.  No tatoos.  not 1 baht payed for. Except they shared my 800baht sang som  bottle. Age between 25 to 33. yeah.  it's really easy

Maybe you have a large penis and the ladies just wanted to spread the love.  You got used and abused. Fair play I say. Even if your not rocking a dong maybe you just had the x factor. Could happen anywhere really.

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9 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

I respect you as you have a profile of who you are on your profile. I tried to do the same but my nose looked too big in the image to be perfectly honest it is too big yet I never lie. Unlucky or maybe not..  anyway vice versa does not mean a thing my point still stands regardless of who you were referring to. Drink your drink and review it tomorrow it's no biggy. 

 

Cheers.  

Sadly I'm not out tonight, just sat at home binge watching Suits season 6 and I only drink water at home so no need to review anything.   

 

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44 minutes ago, seajae said:

mate, what can I say,  I dont hang out any where near hookers/bar girls, not a drinker, have an easy going attitude and smile/laugh a lot, treat everyone I talk to nicely where ever I run into them and most take me for being in my late 40's early 50's . Some ladies just appreciate it when you treat them nicely I suppose, I cant explain it but it happens, what you think doesnt matter, its what they think that does and I dont worry about any ego boosts, as I said I am very happy with what I have and not interested in anything else. Maybe its your attitude thats your probelm if you think only money  can find a woman and they usually dont like hanging out with men that act like boys with the same mentality as a 18 year old, many think older men are a lot more experienced, maybe you should try asking them as I cant tell you what they think 

And you really believe all that nonsense, do you?

 

I am in my early 60s and recently dated a 30 something year old woman I met on a dating site. Seemed a nice girl, educated to a point, spoke perfect English and dressed somewhat like an executive office worker.

 

Later she said she had mistakenly taken me for being in my mid 40s and I remind her of Danial Craig from James bond. My next door neighbour`s Jack Russel terrier looks more like James Bond than I do, but we had a great night and all the expense of wining and dining her at an expensive Italian restaurant and the 1000 baht I gave her because she said she needed some cosmetics all proved worthwhile. On our second date and by this time she had sworn her devoted love for me about 2 dozen times, I began wondering how soon the subject of money  would be mentioned. She did not fail to disappoint me, the subject of money she mentioned on this second date. Can I give her 4000 baht to pay off a debt she owes to her friend she asked? I said; OK, let me go to an ATM and draw out the money. Left her sitting in a cafe, then I got on my motorbike and promptly left the scene and never regretted it.

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Never mind "Easy" or not.
A Thai Girl, with limited education and a poor family background has few options to better herself:
- Upscale marriage with a Thai. Not easy. It would mean to circumnavigate the Thai "Caste System". The "Caste System" is not as appearant in Thailand as it is in India, but it's in place.
What's left for her?
- Seek the company of Farangs. Eighter "short term" or "long term". The Long Term version is usually preferred by Thai Ladies = marriage.
- Thai girls / ladies, having reached this stage, will automatically become "easy".
What escapes a majority of Farangs is the fact that they are not marrying a Thai Girl, but a Thai Family.
Sometimes this turns out to be a blessing for a Farang. But only sometimes, unfortunately.
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In a nutshell: A desperate attempt to escape from an inherited life in poverty. So, who is to blame them for turning "easy"?
Cheers.

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Maybe you do look a lot younger. Be honest where do you fit in terms of age?

 

I don't know an awful lot about thai women to be honest. I have met quite  few only had relations with 1 seriously and two intimately the rest i judfed as fake. I have known many many+++++ western women. Nothing against western women in fact I am likely attracted to them more, generally speaking.  My question is this. If you had been raised in a society where cash is a sign of love and compare the man/house/car/attitude is a sign of appreciation then what do you expect? 

 

I am not saying she was the one or she was right to be honest how you describe her sounds very polished she sounds very astute she does sound like you maybe were right but what does not sound right is her early admission of true love it does not fit the polished act you detail which I think is very strange. Something not right there.

 

 

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44 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

And you really believe all that nonsense, do you?

 

I am in my early 60s and recently dated a 30 something year old woman I met on a dating site. Seemed a nice girl, educated to a point, spoke perfect English and dressed somewhat like an executive office worker.

 

Later she said she had mistakenly taken me for being in my mid 40s and I remind her of Danial Craig from James bond. My next door neighbour`s Jack Russel terrier looks more like James Bond than I do, but we had a great night and all the expense of wining and dining her at an expensive Italian restaurant and the 1000 baht I gave her because she said she needed some cosmetics all proved worthwhile. On our second date and by this time she had sworn her devoted love for me about 2 dozen times, I began wondering how soon the subject of money  would be mentioned. She did not fail to disappoint me, the subject of money she mentioned on this second date. Can I give her 4000 baht to pay off a debt she owes to her friend she asked? I said; OK, let me go to an ATM and draw out the money. Left her sitting in a cafe, then I got on my motorbike and promptly left the scene and never regretted it.

Why didn't you just tell her no instead of running away?

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38 minutes ago, swissie said:

Never mind "Easy" or not.
A Thai Girl, with limited education and a poor family background has few options to better herself:
- Upscale marriage with a Thai. Not easy. It would mean to circumnavigate the Thai "Caste System". The "Caste System" is not as appearant in Thailand as it is in India, but it's in place.
What's left for her?
- Seek the company of Farangs. Eighter "short term" or "long term". The Long Term version is usually preferred by Thai Ladies = marriage.
- Thai girls / ladies, having reached this stage, will automatically become "easy".
What escapes a majority of Farangs is the fact that they are not marrying a Thai Girl, but a Thai Family.
Sometimes this turns out to be a blessing for a Farang. But only sometimes, unfortunately.
--------------------------
In a nutshell: A desperate attempt to escape from an inherited life in poverty. So, who is to blame them for turning "easy"?
Cheers.

Interesting how so many men judge a girl being "easy" as contemptible, and yet they are even easier. 

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