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BANGKOK 24 January 2019 03:15
eldragon

Side Effects of Marrying a Much Older Man

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13 minutes ago, bwpage3 said:

We do see this kinds of relationships around the world, you probably have never traveled enough to see them.

 

Ever go to Miami, Florida? See rich old men with Ferrari's and GF's 40 years younger in their $10 Million plus oceanfront homes.

 

You obviously didn't read my post carefully. What are these woman doing the other 23 hours and 40 minutes each day?

 

Companionship, whether money is involved or not, it up to both parties.

 

This is not up to you to decide.

 

Men and women of all ages are free to make their own choices

 

Not sure what chip you have on your shoulder to take this personally?

 

You look at everything from a sex point of view, never understanding the friendship and companionship that can exist between 2 people of any age

 

If a woman feels she is better off than being dead poor and the man is willing, no one's business but theirs

 

If it upsets you so much, get some help. This is not normal at all.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yes, those relationships are found all over the world and if financial happiness is important for the woman, then that is fine. But it still does not change the fact, that if she had her financial issues covered, then she would most likely choose someone closer to her own age. 

 

What people do, is their business. I am just stating the facts.... which are that, in these relationships MONEY is often the main and only factor. 

 

People can have sex with who they want. I dont care and it is their personal choice. I just dont believe, that it does not effect peoples lives deep down. I for sure, would feel like SXXT, if I had to do stuff that fundamentally is totally against, what I would concede as normal for me.

 

On the other hand, if I was offered e.g. 5 mill USD to have sex with an old bag, then I would properly do it. But I would also puke the rest of my life thinking about it and would properly start doing drugs, just to get the mental picture out of my head.

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13 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Most of the younger Thai girls who marry older falangs are not sacrificing a glitter career ahead of them in order to do so .

   They will never be self sufficient professionals, working as a cashier in 7/11 on minimum wage is even beyond their expectations in life .

   Most of them will either sit all day long in their bamboo hut in their village , caring for her Thai son whilst her whisky drinking Thai bf is out in the fields earning a few baht or she can spend years in a bikini dancing around a pole in Pattaya .

   The lucky few will meet a well off older felang who can and will provide for her, She will have a nice house and will never have to work again .

   She will go from street class to middle class over night , she goes from the bottom rung of the ladder to half way up it over night .

   It is quite unfair for all the girls who studied hard at school, went to uni and then settled for a menial job and theres Mrs felangs boyfreind with everything without any effort from her part .

   Young  rich guys have no interest in the lower class girls 

 

Good point. I forgot to mention both the women I referred to in the OP had Bachelor's degrees and relatively good jobs. I also know of a couple other, similarly educated young ladies who seem determined to make the same mistake, dating guys 20 years older than them and making plans to wed soon. I guess that's irrelevant though, as what you described is probably the case more times than not.

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18 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Most of the younger Thai girls who marry older falangs are not sacrificing a glitter career ahead of them in order to do so .

   They will never be self sufficient professionals, working as a cashier in 7/11 on minimum wage is even beyond their expectations in life .

   Most of them will either sit all day long in their bamboo hut in their village , caring for her Thai son whilst her whisky drinking Thai bf is out in the fields earning a few baht or she can spend years in a bikini dancing around a pole in Pattaya .

   The lucky few will meet a well off older felang who can and will provide for her, She will have a nice house and will never have to work again .

   She will go from street class to middle class over night , she goes from the bottom rung of the ladder to half way up it over night .

   It is quite unfair for all the girls who studied hard at school, went to uni and then settled for a menial job and theres Mrs felangs boyfreind with everything without any effort from her part .

   Young  rich guys have no interest in the lower class girls 

Lots of girls in Isaan, never were able to finish school due to having to work in the fields to survive

 

Many never had the chance to go or the money to pay for Uni

 

As stated, these girls have zero future. No Thai with any worth wants to marry an Isaan girl that works in the fields.

 

It is a dead end, hopeless life

 

Those that I know that married farangs, it gave them pride and self-worth. Many do an excellent job with the house and family.

 

I do not see it as unfair. People of all walks of life come to Thailand and get married.

 

Is it destiny for 2 people of such different backgrounds to find each other in rural Thailand?

 

Girls that go to Uni are just that. They fall in love with their same age boyfriends, never realizing years later, or when they get pregnant and their BF runs off, that their education is not worth the paper it is written on.

 

We just had some Thai friends  visit us last week in Florida USA.

 

The wife is one of those bleached white, have to be white to be important type of Thai's from Thammasart Uni.

 

She was shocked when we went to the beach and she saw all the sexy, fit, girls with their dark tans.

 

When told no one likes "white as ghost" girls here, she was absolutely shocked and had no idea.

 

Uni girls are the main victims of international marketing and materialism. Have to have the skin bleachers, Iphones, etc.

 

They are victims of their own education which they do not realize until they have made stupid mistakes with BF's their own age, that they will never be able to earn enough to do anything but live in a flat and survive.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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"I know two Thai girls that recently divorced much older men, both foreigners "

 

    Although it is quite common for people to get divorced, whether they are foreigners, Thai, old or young or a combination .

   Its very rare for a person to go through life and stay with the same partner forever , breaking up and divorce is sadly part of most peoples lives . 

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If I got 1,000 baht every time I overheard a younger Thai female, telling her friends that she does not love the older man she married, 'but he take care me', I would be extremely rich. 

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