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Women are crying for equality so I guess a good roundhouse is completely PC.

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On 12/12/2016 at 9:00 AM, richard_smith237 said:

I'm not proud I slapped her across the face, but, when she made the choice to hit me and come at me with a knife she also made the choice to create a violent situation.

Were there no warning signs during the courtship part of your relationship. There are always little signals that her behavior should throw off. I always watched for them when starting a new relationship.

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I also had this at the hands of an English wife.She was violent and dangerous.To my girls and me.She was terribly aggressive after drinking.In the end,i divorced her and got sole custody, care ,and control of my daughter(6years old) The judge also deemed it fit to have her name removed from our mortgage(which can be done)She had no visitation rights,and a few years later she was in court for negligence of her two children by her husband.Her life ended miserably at 37 when her husband killed her.This isnt bull shit.It went national,in all the newspaper's at the time.Also it is Googlable.

My point is,that i wouldnt have it at home,why would i have it here.Luckily enough i have not experienced it with any of the Thai girls over the 16 years of being here. I am lucky to have been married to an issan girl, for 5 years now,with no  problems in that direction When i had my bar,in Patts i would hear terrible stories about this,i never understood why the guys put up with it.I do think that when a felang takes on a Thai girl,he takes on a woman with a childs brain.

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1 minute ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

when a felang takes on a Thai girl,he takes on a woman with a childs brain.

I can understand why your wife has not been a problem if this is your thinking. 

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22 minutes ago, dotpoom said:

Am I getting this right?....The way to show somebody how horrible violence is.......is to whack them in the face with a mighty blow...interesting theory.

   Some people might just walk away or seek help for the person they supposedly "love" through councilling.

 

She has a child like mentality and she needed to be taught about boundaries , things which she can and cannot do

    Its a bit like a school bully . You can ask them to stop picking on you , but they wont stop .

   The only way that they will stop will be if they know that they will be getting something coming back their way if they persist 

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10 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

I also had this at the hands of an English wife.She was violent and dangerous.To my girls and me.She was terribly aggressive after drinking.In the end,i divorced her and got sole custody, care ,and control of my daughter(6years old) The judge also deemed it fit to have her name removed from our mortgage(which can be done)She had no visitation rights,and a few years later she was in court for negligence of her two children by her husband.Her life ended miserably at 37 when her husband killed her.This isnt bull shit.It went national,in all the newspaper's at the time.Also it is Googlable.

My point is,that i wouldnt have it at home,why would i have it here.Luckily enough i have not experienced it with any of the Thai girls over the 16 years of being here. I am lucky to have been married to an issan girl, for 5 years now,with no  problems in that direction When i had my bar,in Patts i would hear terrible stories about this,i never understood why the guys put up with it.I do think that when a felang takes on a Thai girl,he takes on a woman with a childs brain.

 

 

And there are plenty of violent farang and Thai men in any country.

 

Many years ago a neighbor had an English guy rent his house on Jomtien. The English renter had a Thai wife and 2 little kids with the same lady.

 

He regularly brought home 1 to 3 bar girls and they had sex in front of the actual wife and little kids at the insistence of the farang renter.

 

If the actual wife cried the farang would punch her in the face. The English guy ended up in Jail and was then deported on blacklist. 

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elgordo38

Oh foolish poster.What do you mean,my thinking,What thinking? I stated an event which was a bad time in my life,i hope you never have to have anything like it.I have never had a problem with my thai wife,because she is a good woman.I have seen her lose it with her erstwhile daughter,when the girl takes the piss,and believe me you wouldnt want her knocking on your front door.You silly man,you cannot comment on something of which you know so little about.If you are insinuating that my wife is scared of me,you have no idea about isaan girls.Now,go away and come back when you have grown up and have learned more about women because you are obviously very young,green or just plain gobby and stupid.I have to go because i have something to do,more interesting than conversing with you.I have to watch my kitchen door paint drying.

god save me from idiots and know nothing fools.

 

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If a woman raises her hands to you in any other fashion than play.  Leave her.  Don't even think about staying.  She will never change, ever.  If she made you hit her as the original OP suggests then that is just lowering you to that level of behavior.  When you meet someone new you must explain that you will not put up with this and if it happens you re off.  It's up to them then.

 

I had a bad marriage, she was violent in exactly the same way as described by the OP, I thought I could change the situation.  But I'm afraid changing someone's use of violence to solve conflict is not possible.

 

Just leave and let her take her angst out on someone else.

 

Good luck.  It takes a lot of guts to actually leave.  We always tend to blame ourselves, even when it's not us.  Be strong and go, you wont regret it.

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I do agree with you.This type of behaviour can come from both men and women.i am not condemning women per Se.I have known many violent men who think it is their god given right to "give the old woman a right hander,to keep her in line" and i have known men to be secret victims to womens violence. I was just stating what happened to me.It seems to me that when a poster opens up to others to tell of a bad time in their lives,there is always some glib,smart bastard who likes to take the piss,and make some stupid,childish remark.At least i told the truth,and i barethe scars to prove it.I think that i saved my daughter from a lot of pain at the hands of this woman.

People can think what they like,but i truly hope that they never have to go through it.Life with a mad woman is no life.

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Quite simply, after a couple of aggressive acts I would be on my way. Who wants to be in a relationship with a ticking time bomb? - even if she's now changed her ways - hmmm...... to that.

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20 minutes ago, scorecard said:

 

 

And there are plenty of violent farang and Thai men in any country.

 

 

 

   I do not think that theres any need to differentiate between Males and Females and Thais and felangs .

   Its just an act of violence and aggression from one person to the other .

Their gender and nationality is irrelevant 

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On Monday, December 12, 2016 at 8:46 AM, bannork said:

Gotta love the second line of the OP - 'throwing things at me, coming at me with knives , things got worse and worse '

5555

 

 

How much f****** worse can things get??

I can't Imagine being In a relationship where both parties have resorted to violence.  I'd have walked away on the very firdst occasion.  There must always be asense of embarrassment and humiliation between them.

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21 minutes ago, freebyrd said:

Quite simply, after a couple of aggressive acts I would be on my way. Who wants to be in a relationship with a ticking time bomb? - even if she's now changed her ways - hmmm...... to that.

 

This^

 

I doubt that a punch in the face will change a person's character. If I was the OP I would be out of there, sharpish... or at least sleeping with one eye open.

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3 hours ago, Peterw42 said:

 

 

 

It could have something to do with the nutters are always the best sex.

 

So true.

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