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when's my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner?

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I've been with my Thai girlfriend for over a month now and we've been out for a meal numerous times.. be it noodle stand near the road..  or a 1000baht hotel buffet. Not once has she offered to pay.. or even pay half and it's really getting on my nerves. It's the norm now.. the bill comes.. i look at her.. she looks at me.. and i get my wallet out.

 

I know i'm a "cheapskate" farang most of the time but i do believe that i as the western man should pay for MOST things and i honestly don't mind.. but just once in a bloody while it would be good  for her to get the bill.

 

I don't know the details of her income or even her job.. she works for a Japanese company as a "Senior Accounting Officer" but she can afford her condo and a new honda car...

 

She's talking about a weekend trip to Singapore and i'm thinking of excuses to get out of it.. because i don't want to pay for everything

I suppose i'm going to be paying for flights + hotels + food :sad:

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When is hell going to freeze over ?

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She's talking about a weekend trip to Singapore and i'm thinking of excuses to get out of it.. because i don't want to pay for everything
I suppose i'm going to be paying for flights + hotels + food :sad:


Correct assumption. YOU are going to pay for all (you forgot her shoe / bag / clothes shopping) and are getting sex in return. Same same here and in the West, case closed.

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it's not difficult to date thai girls here who pay 50/50 or at least offer to pay. once the relationship gets going we usually take turns to pay. the same with holidays 50/50. many i date insist on paying their way. it is true i date middle class educated, professional women with good jobs, maybe you should try that?

 

 

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Topic has been done to death on this forum already..... your last troll thread was also inane, you are either :

a) one of the staff trying to click bait 

b). Someone who is too easily amused.

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1 hour ago, lemonjelly said:

Topic has been done to death on this forum already..... your last troll thread was also inane, you are either :

a) one of the staff trying to click bait 

b). Someone who is too easily amused.

thats two new words i have learnt today   click bait and fire sale    wow what a fast moving world

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47 minutes ago, Langsuan Man said:

Like mine:

 

When she wins the lottery 

even then you will have to ask  if you are brave/stupid enough  i suggest if you are hoping to introduce a western type system here you are  on a  voyage to nowhere 

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2 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

but they also take half when it goes tits up.

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4 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

You ain't in the West.......Plus your West birds might have been fat and ugly or felt sorry for you.........:stoner:

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11 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

Girls here aren,t as desperate :cheesy:

tell her your happy to pay half of any bills and then (probably) watch her walk away :whistling:

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There are a number of qualities that I look for in my GF/wife....things like physical attractiveness, honesty, sense of humor, frugality, good family, pleasant demeanor, sensual, responsible, etc.  But I must say, "paying for dinner" would be pretty darn low on my list of endearing qualities. 

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5 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

This isn't the west.

If you want to date a genuine Thai girl in Thailand, you do it on Thai terms.

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When is my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner????       

You for real????   :cheesy:

Wakey wakey, this is Thailand, farang pay end of.

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