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cheapskatesam

when's my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner?

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Gosh a whole month- even if your girlfriend has a reasonable sounding job- the condo rental and repayments on the car- will not leave her with very much.

its all about impressing her friends and family.

 

Just pay- it makes you feel good- you are looking after the person that provides you with the services you require.

 

On the other hand Thai Visa seems desperate for a few clicks ? 

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1 hour ago, biggles45 said:

Its not just with a Foreigner though,  and it is not because she is giving you access to the pussy. Thai culture usually sees the person with the most money picking up the bill. If you were to dine with quite well off Thais you may find one of them paying, this has been written a few times on the forum. 

I must be moving in the wrong circles then. I have yet to find one paying for mine.

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7 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

 

I never had this experience with girls in Hong Kong or Singapore either.

 

This country has far too many girls who are from poor families and its often hard to tell that they are not middle class.   I now refuse to date any girl unless her family is from Bangkok and she has been overseas a few times.


At least that (usually) eliminates the poor ones.

 

 

 

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14 minutes ago, MaksimMislavsky said:

A man is the one who pays. As to me, no problem with it whatsoever. Moreover, if a girl insists on paying for herself or splitting expenses, I stop seeing her. No exception. Regardless of her ethnicity or nationality. Works well.

Well, it sounds like you are conditioned to be the bread-winner. However, it seems rather drastic to stop seeing a woman just because she wants to help pay. Do you have or want some sort of power trip over the woman? 

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When I lived in Udon Thani was seeing a girl there. Off and on. She was gorgeous - and full if it!  Got Curious, so put a tracking app on the fone she uses with 'Friends' He-He. She went home, I drove by the house late at nite ... Nice place. New Jazz in the driveway. She always asked for $$$ for taxi home. 555 Did not care one way or the other, but my curiosity got the better of me.

When will she pay - you will not live long enough to see it !

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In Asia more so than most places, it would be perceived as a potential loss of face for the female to pay part, or all, of the bill. She's doing it for your sake. :whistling:

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Ha ha ha ha...... Are you a true ignoramus? Of you're expected to pay for everything. Only way not is dump her and hope the next one is the one-in-a-million that might share living costs with you.


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1 hour ago, kovaltech said:

don't talk as a 18 year old boy...

You are not in the west here...

If you can't stand the heat... get out the sun...

Man, you are speaking to the first runner up of the thai visa poster of the year award.

There was no mix up in the envelopes on this one.

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when's my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner?...........the last supper!
 
 
 

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I would feel quite uncomfortable expecting a woman to pay. specially if the meal is affordable.

 

Helps you get laid later as well.

 

I once met a nice lady at Bamboo. She was very demure until i paid for her tequila after that she started grinding her ample bottom against me.

well worth the price of a shot.

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Short answer   ,,,,, never

Troll post guys,,,,,,, he bonks the hell out of her & now he wants her money stupid guy

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Be a man and ask her.  If you are not open with her and do not say anything then you deserve to be taken for a ride (literally I hope seems you are paying for it)  

 

Seriously you are in Thailand and on TV you should know the score TROLL!!!!!!!!

 

Grow a pair or maybe hers are bigger than yours.

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I was out with around 7 thai girls so far... 1 paid for me.. 4 shared and 2 expected me to pay. 

I guess it depends on many things but claiming that all thai girls expect the guy to pay is not true anymore. 

 

I guess students nowadays want to share more and more.. while uneducated thai girls obviously expect the rich farang to pay.. 

And there is certainly a difference if the girl is from the south/north..age .. etc

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