atyclb Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 On 3/7/2017 at 1:46 AM, cheapskatesam said: There are hot girls online.. but you need to pay for premium access to stand out from the 99% cheap charlies that message them imo the so called "hot girls" prefer to hang out with the better looking younger fit males regardless of how many bloated old farts like us have premium membership. in addition some of those hot girls are simply paid profile bait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 On 3/9/2017 at 6:19 AM, jerojero said: At 300 Baht per day wage, that's significant to millions of Thai people. hint: try to get a date with a non poverty stricken woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grollies Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 24 minutes ago, atyclb said: hint: try to get a date with a non poverty stricken woman worst post of the year. crass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seancbk Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 This is what regular Thai's think about the whole issue of splitting bills.https://www.bangkokexpatlife.com/2017/03/thai-buzz-girls-help-pay-dates Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted March 11, 2017 Share Posted March 11, 2017 29 minutes ago, seancbk said: This is what regular Thai's think about the whole issue of splitting bills.https://www.bangkokexpatlife.com/2017/03/thai-buzz-girls-help-pay-dates Wow.....Who would have thought? The same mentality like the rest of the world. People really need to get out of bars..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 18 hours ago, seancbk said: This is what regular Thai's think about the whole issue of splitting bills.https://www.bangkokexpatlife.com/2017/03/thai-buzz-girls-help-pay-dates absolutely agree. the more intelligent, more educated, more worldly gals hands down want to share the bill or even invite and pay 100%. seems that some of the self anointed knights in shining armour believe it is somehow degrading or makes a guy cheap. imo its typically the opportunistic money seeking parasite women that behave this way (never sharing, helping or paying) low desirability women in my book Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FruitPudding Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 Well, my women pays. Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbrenn Posted March 14, 2017 Share Posted March 14, 2017 On 02/03/2017 at 0:55 PM, lemonjelly said: Topic has been done to death on this forum already..... your last troll thread was also inane, you are either : a) one of the staff trying to click bait b). Someone who is too easily amused. Right - I also remember this self-styled Cheapskate complaining about the cost of dowries. The general advice in his last thread was that this is the culture, and that if he didn't like it he should either go back home and find a rick western girlfriend or stick with renting bar girls over here. Seems he's trying his luck with regular Thai ladies again - if his story can be believed. This latest one will probably dump him like all the others would have done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy Freckle Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 Whenever I feel like a laugh I stop by this thread and (if it's still being flogged) I have a look see what will be the latest 'joke de jour'..., or..., maybe I'll have to go back to the OP's original post in order to have myself laugh ? Surely he wasn't trolling...? Whatever..., that grasshopper has a lot to learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigKahuna Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 On 2017-3-9 at 11:43 AM, giddyup said: In all honesty you sound like a bullshitter. Can almost smell it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khon Kaen Dave Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 On 3/8/2017 at 10:39 PM, Itsnottheplaceitwas said: Funny you liked this KK Dave Coz you claimed anyone who didn't agree with your trail of thought had to be a Lardy slob old slob who sits on bar stools in pattaya ? your words "fool" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 she will/might pay once you suggestively and playfully urge her to do so??..if not...your common sense should give you the answer on what to do!!.... same for the Singapore trip, just be a man and make it politely clear that it would be half and half....obviously, if you have 2000 US$ to spend each month and she makes only around 300 US$ a month, be fair and make her participate proportionately and symbolically!!....good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbi1 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 On 2017-3-2 at 6:05 PM, colinneil said: When is my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner???? You for real???? Wakey wakey, this is Thailand, farang pay end of. Not true. Only the stupid farangs pay for everything. Any gf of mine here always have paid for any expenses when out and about, whether it's eating out or partying. I'd estimate about 40-50% of the time they'd pay. Avoid the gold diggers and bar girls and find someone normal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbi1 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 1 hour ago, observer90210 said: she will/might pay once you suggestively and playfully urge her to do so??..if not...your common sense should give you the answer on what to do!!.... same for the Singapore trip, just be a man and make it politely clear that it would be half and half....obviously, if you have 2000 US$ to spend each month and she makes only around 300 US$ a month, be fair and make her participate proportionately and symbolically!!....good luck If she's making $300/month then either she shouldn't be asking to go there in the first place if she hasn't got enough money or she should have that money saved up to pay her half. Seems like the OP is being used like an ATM already in his 1st month of dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 2 minutes ago, bbi1 said: If she's making $300/month then either she shouldn't be asking to go there in the first place if she hasn't got enough money or she should have that money saved up to pay her half. Seems like the OP is being used like an ATM already in his 1st month of dating. you also have a point, I admit... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 never .... not in this lifetime ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 Do you not know sarcasm when you see it? My post included the laughing emoji. My Thai wife has never asked/taken 1 baht from me, and if you read posts on here, you would know that as i am a regular poster, and have stated many times about that. so in future please read/study things before making comments. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 42 minutes ago, bbi1 said: Not true. Only the stupid farangs pay for everything. Any gf of mine here always have paid for any expenses when out and about, whether it's eating out or partying. I'd estimate about 40-50% of the time they'd pay. Avoid the gold diggers and bar girls and find someone normal. My above post was directed at you, i forgot to click the quote button. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chou Anou Posted June 14, 2017 Share Posted June 14, 2017 On 3/3/2017 at 1:10 AM, cheapskatesam said: "I'm not paying for sex" "I'll keep paying for everything as long as i'm getting a regular shag" Two things you said in different posts in this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted June 17, 2017 Share Posted June 17, 2017 On 3/2/2017 at 8:33 AM, cheapskatesam said: Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. You're not in Kansas anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted June 17, 2017 Share Posted June 17, 2017 On 6/14/2017 at 5:50 AM, bbi1 said: Not true. Only the stupid farangs pay for everything. Any gf of mine here always have paid for any expenses when out and about, whether it's eating out or partying. I'd estimate about 40-50% of the time they'd pay. Avoid the gold diggers and bar girls and find someone normal. Farangs pay anyway, but seriously, what good looking girl is going to pay her own way to go out with someone twice or more their age and not anywhere fit looking, and shag them as well? BTW, whatever you may think of them, Thai bargirls are "normal", whatever that means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbi1 Posted June 17, 2017 Share Posted June 17, 2017 1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said: Farangs pay anyway, but seriously, what good looking girl is going to pay her own way to go out with someone twice or more their age and not anywhere fit looking, and shag them as well? BTW, whatever you may think of them, Thai bargirls are "normal", whatever that means. The only girls interested in grey nomads twice her age is a prostitute, that's clear and simple. But to overgeneralise "farangs pay anyway" is a load of crap. I've had lots of girls pretty much alternate in paying for a meal out, or girls who I didn't go for a meal just come over for some fun, no strings attached. Yes I agree with you, Thai bargirls are normal everyday prostitutes :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bill59 Posted June 23, 2017 Share Posted June 23, 2017 The answer is never if she is your spouse or you are in a long term relationship. And it's not about being cheap. It is cultural. A Thai man will never allow his Thai wife to be seen paying for their dinner. It's considered demasculating and disrespectful to the man as head of the family and a Thai woman would never do this to her husband. Unfortunately everything these days in the west is demasculating to the male and is creating a lot of confusion. I suspect things are changing among young Thais as they become more infected with western ways.Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music065 Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 On 3/2/2017 at 5:30 AM, Khon Kaen Dave said: cheapskatesam You aint in kansas any more Dorothy. You really cannot be serious.This beautiful, wonderful,Thai creature, who lets you sleep with her, goes through all the motions of enjoying sex with you? Why on earth should she have to pay even harsip for you having he pleasure of her company.Listen mate,girls over here pay SFA.get used to it.And the kicker is, that youve only been with her a month??? did you expect her to start shelling out dosh in the case of a 30 day relationship.Relationships with Thai ladies take time to bear fruit. My Mrs and i worked together for 7 years, in the bar trade. We were partners in every thing. But i still paid for our nights out and meals,and the odd dress or shoes. That what men do, its what is expected of us. married now for 5 years,she helps out with stuff. She will buy shopping,and cleaning stuff, and she will occasionally treat me to a meal, or a night out in KK, or when we go on holiday. And you want all this after a month? Sorry my misguided friend, you've a lot to learn. So you married a bar girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted November 25, 2017 Share Posted November 25, 2017 On 6/18/2017 at 6:17 AM, bbi1 said: The only girls interested in grey nomads twice her age is a prostitute, that's clear and simple. But to overgeneralise "farangs pay anyway" is a load of crap. I've had lots of girls pretty much alternate in paying for a meal out, or girls who I didn't go for a meal just come over for some fun, no strings attached. Yes I agree with you, Thai bargirls are normal everyday prostitutes :) Never heard of the long con then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marko kok prong Posted November 26, 2017 Share Posted November 26, 2017 My girl sometimes pays,with money i have given her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 3/2/2017 at 1:33 AM, cheapskatesam said: Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. But did you get sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 So you married a bar girl?Hardly unusual!Sent from my SM-G930F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 On 3/2/2017 at 8:33 AM, cheapskatesam said: Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. Yeah, but if you let them pay half, they didn't stick around long, or have sex with you often. Why do you think you're still single? WHo in hell revived this old post? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gunderhill Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 Forget wallet on next food stuffing extravaganza, next day go out and find new model. Maybe one who works in a food court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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