dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I met a girl in Udon Thani from the Apps and We have chatted for about a month. I will visit Udon Thani tomorrow and it will be our first date. She works in a gold shop(Back Office not Sales) in Udon and i know she hasn't had boyfriend now.she is bachelor degree girl and not a bar girl. Just now i told her i will go to udon tomorrow and ask her out for a dinner on Facebook.and she said she will text me after getting out of work But now i don't have any experience about a Thai Girl Should I try to hold her hands on our first date? Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Only with grandma sitting between you, then yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 7 minutes ago, tonray said: Only with grandma sitting between you, then yes. What means bro? she graduated in udon and work in Udon for several years. her hometown is in Nong khai and she live in udon at her sister's friend's home it will be our 1st date tomorrow and advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 4 minutes ago, dettol2288 said: What means bro? she graduated in udon and work in Udon for several years. her hometown is in Nong khai and she live in udon at her sister's friend's home it will be our 1st date tomorrow and advice? I saw your other post bro... Here you ask if you should hold hands and in your other post you wanted to know if you would get laid...... When you post a serious question perhaps people will give you serious answers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak2002003 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 How old are you? How can you have dinner on Facebook? You have no idea about how to date women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 2 minutes ago, jak2002003 said: How old are you? How can you have dinner on Facebook? You have no idea about how to date women? I am under 30. Still have no Idea Could you give me some advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 5 minutes ago, tonray said: I saw your other post bro... Here you ask if you should hold hands and in your other post you wanted to know if you would get laid...... When you post a serious question perhaps people will give you serious answers. could u please give me some help ?sir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 minute ago, dettol2288 said: could u please give me some help ?sir Thai girls on a date are just like women anywhere. Treat them nice Show some respect Make them laugh Listen to whatever nonsense they are spouting Splash a little cash If she likes you then maybe you will have a good time. Have you ever dated a Thai girl ? Have you ever dated any girl ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 minute ago, tonray said: Thai girls on a date are just like women anywhere. Treat them nice Show some respect Make them laugh Listen to whatever nonsense they are spouting Splash a little cash If she likes you then maybe you will have a good time. Have you ever dated a Thai girl ? Have you ever dated any girl ? in fact,i don't have any experience about dating any girl so i don't know how to date and what to do with a thai girl and get a happy ending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 minute ago, dettol2288 said: in fact,i don't have any experience about dating any girl so i don't know how to date and what to do with a thai girl and get a happy ending. I would suggest online porn then. Have a good day. You can learn from the internet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak2002003 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 minute ago, dettol2288 said: in fact,i don't have any experience about dating any girl so i don't know how to date and what to do with a thai girl and get a happy ending. OK............... you need to get a life and also some psychological help from a professional. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 2 minutes ago, tonray said: I would suggest online porn then. Have a good day. You can learn from the internet. i am not an outgoing guy and don't want to be a loser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 1 minute ago, dettol2288 said: i am not an outgoing guy and don't want to be a loser Then step 1 is to stop being an Internet Troll. That will help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ericthai Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 37 minutes ago, dettol2288 said: in fact,i don't have any experience about dating any girl so i don't know how to date and what to do with a thai girl and get a happy ending. Really I think you are a troll! Your 30 and never been with a girl? However, if you aren't a troll here is your help. Youtube is your friend! Go do a search on youtube for how to date a girl or First date something like that I'm sure you will find allot of videos. If not then use google I'm sure there are websites out there that can help guys like you. Still can't believe you're 30 and never been with a girl. My 1st girlfriend I was something like 14-15 , Which I think is about average for most people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dettol2288 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Share Posted June 24, 2017 5 minutes ago, ericthai said: Really I think you are a troll! Your 30 and never been with a girl? However, if you aren't a troll here is your help. Youtube is your friend! Go do a search on youtube for how to date a girl or First date something like that I'm sure you will find allot of videos. If not then use google I'm sure there are websites out there that can help guys like you. Still can't believe you're 30 and never been with a girl. My 1st girlfriend I was something like 14-15 , Which I think is about average for most people. I am under 30.it is in my early 20s. i am not an outgoing guy.so dont have experience on dating girls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ericthai Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 2 minutes ago, dettol2288 said: I am under 30.it is in my early 20s. i am not an outgoing guy.so dont have experience on dating girls Well trying to learn here is not going to help. I dont think anyone here has the time or is willing to spend hours with you. So do as I suggested, search youtube and or google. Also do a search here on Thai visa for Thai girls. You will come up with allot of info on what to watch out for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamBeast Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I mean you no offense, but before you try your luck with a Thai girl, learn about girls in general. Go back to your country temporarly, get some experience with some girls, lose your male virginity, then come back here and attempt your luck. Open Tinder, pick single moms for some quick effort-less notches, rinse and repeat. Once you got experience with "easy" single moms, let them go and let them marry some loser, and go talk to some "average" girls with 2-3 previous boyfriends. Learn the ropes, learn the culture, and enjoy. Finally, once you're ready to settle down and get married, find a virgin, and use your experience to please her, and enjoy the beauties of a Thai wife. Anyway, before we tell you if it's OK to do something with a girl (ex: holding hands), we need to know the history of the girl. If she's a single mother with the father still alive, then there's no reason to postpone sex - first date or leave. If she's a decent girl but with some history, 3-4 dates is acceptable, but refrain from holdings hands on the first date - it isn't America. That's some general advice, but you have a lot to learn, grasshopper. The general rule of thumb is that your SMV is amplified here, but if you don't know how to act with a girl, 0 x 1000 is still zero. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Upnotover Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 24 minutes ago, dettol2288 said: I am under 30.it is in my early 20s. i am not an outgoing guy.so dont have experience on dating girls Utter nonsense the whole thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flustered Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 2 hours ago, Upnotover said: Utter nonsense the whole thread. Agree. At least some of the Isaan threads are funny. This is plain boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I am under 30.it is in my early 20s. i am not an outgoing guy.so dont have experience on dating girlsTry dating a bloke then.Sent from my SM-G920F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spaniel Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 Well, be sure to let us know how the date went. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 A post containing a profane video has been removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
williamgeorgeallen Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 thai woman are boring as hell. generally western men have very little in common with them so conversation is strained. if she is a non bar girl (bar girls are generally more fun) she will probably take a family member or friend with her so at least she will have someone to talk to. be prepared she may bring a number of people and you will be expected to pay the bill. if you are looking at getting laid it is probably cheaper to just pay a bargirl. good luck. let us know how you get on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emster23 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Making a person feel comfortable has a higher value than telling the truth. Part of Thai culture. Listen to your guts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marquis22 Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 On 2017-6-24 at 9:01 PM, dettol2288 said: could u please give me some help ?sir Invite her to your hotel room and tell her you will go to the 7/11 to buy take-away dinner of spicy pork and rice and a few bottles of Chang. If she loves a hansom man like you, she will accept. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blazes Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 On 6/24/2017 at 8:14 AM, SiamBeast said: I mean you no offense, but before you try your luck with a Thai girl, learn about girls in general. Go back to your country temporarly, get some experience with some girls, lose your male virginity, then come back here and attempt your luck. Open Tinder, pick single moms for some quick effort-less notches, rinse and repeat. Once you got experience with "easy" single moms, let them go and let them marry some loser, and go talk to some "average" girls with 2-3 previous boyfriends. Learn the ropes, learn the culture, and enjoy. Finally, once you're ready to settle down and get married, find a virgin, and use your experience to please her, and enjoy the beauties of a Thai wife. Anyway, before we tell you if it's OK to do something with a girl (ex: holding hands), we need to know the history of the girl. If she's a single mother with the father still alive, then there's no reason to postpone sex - first date or leave. If she's a decent girl but with some history, 3-4 dates is acceptable, but refrain from holdings hands on the first date - it isn't America. That's some general advice, but you have a lot to learn, grasshopper. The general rule of thumb is that your SMV is amplified here, but if you don't know how to act with a girl, 0 x 1000 is still zero. This is the most sensible piece of advice I have read on here for a long long time. Congratulations, gov. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 Relax. Be courteous and let her take the lead... and don't be surprised if she wants to bring a friend as that would be proper. If you want to be a real gentleman, you could ask her if she would like to bring a friend along. Many here, including myself have had a traditional courtship, which for me meant 2 months of chaperoned dates. I enjoyed meeting her friends and family too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hobobo Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 On 24/06/2017 at 8:50 PM, dettol2288 said: What means bro? she graduated in udon and work in Udon for several years. her hometown is in Nong khai and she live in udon at her sister's friend's home it will be our 1st date tomorrow and advice? If she's a virgin, make it a memorable experience for her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hobobo Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 On 24/06/2017 at 9:01 PM, dettol2288 said: I am under 30. Still have no Idea Could you give me some advice? Rinse your mouth with Dettol if you plan to kiss her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klauskunkel Posted June 26, 2017 Share Posted June 26, 2017 On 6/24/2017 at 8:58 PM, jak2002003 said: How old are you? How can you have dinner on Facebook? You have no idea about how to date women? On 6/24/2017 at 9:01 PM, dettol2288 said: I am under 30. Still have no Idea Could you give me some advice? Go back to school and don't skip the prom this time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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